Can I Agree to Child Custody Without Going to Court in Louisiana?

child custody agreements in Louisiana

If you’re going through a split with your partner and you have children together, you may have questions regarding child custody in Louisiana such as how to get joint custody without going to court. You probably already know that if you can’t agree on child custody or visitation, then you will have to take your matter to court and let the judge decide your case. The judge will look at the situation in its entirety and base his or her decision on the facts of the case. One parent will be granted domiciliary parent status and the other parent will have visitation. 

The amount of time each parent gets to spend with their child or children depends on the ruling of the court. Normally, there is one parent named domiciliary parent and the other will be assigned a visitation schedule that is in the best interest of the child.  

Do You Have To Go To Court On a Child Custody Matter in Louisiana?  

If you and your spouse get along well enough to sit down and discuss the matter, you absolutely can work out your own child custody agreement. You will have to take everything into consideration and work out a visitation schedule that works for everyone. The two of you will have to determine who is to be named the domiciliary parent and who will get visitation and on what days. Joint custody with a domiciliary parent named is the most common type of child custody because it gives both parents custody with one parent named as the domiciliary parent. You can then put your agreement in writing and present it to the judge for signature if you would like to have an enforceable agreement.  A custody agreement without court can go a long way towards remaining friendly towards the other parent.

What Does Domiciliary Parent Status Mean in Louisiana? 

The parent given domiciliary status is the one who has the “tie-breaker” decision power. This means that the domiciliary parent makes more of the decisions regarding the child. The domiciliary parent must act in the best interest of the child in all aspects of the child’s life. This parent can make any decision affecting the child or children and in the event of a disagreement with the other parent, the domiciliary parent will have authority. The child normally resides mainly with the domiciliary parent with the other parent having visitation.  

Do You Need a Domiciliary Parent if There is Joint Custody or 50/50? 

It is not required to have a domiciliary parent chosen in Louisiana child custody issues. However, this is something you may want to consult with an attorney because you may have disagreements later as to the child or children and there won’t be any one parent that can make the final decision. At that point you may want to have a domiciliary parent named and may need to take your matter to court if you and the other parent cannot agree.  

Domiciliary Parent Decisions 

The domiciliary parent is usually the parent with whom the child resides and spends the most time with. While the domiciliary parent makes the decisions, the non-domiciliary parent can challenge the decisions by going to court and presenting their case to the judge. However, there is a small caveat – the non-domiciliary parent has the burden of proving that the decisions are not in the best interests of the child or children. This is a tough burden to overcome as it is presumed that the domiciliary parent’s decisions are in the best interests of the child.  

It should be noted that the domiciliary parent makes the decisions unless the child custody plan provides otherwise. You have the option to build a plan that has certain aspects that both parents must agree on. The domiciliary parent can make most of the decisions, but the plan could specify that mutual agreement is required for decisions such as education, medical decisions, extracurricular activities such as sports and music and so on. This is why it is important to get an attorney involved that has Louisiana child custody experience even if you plan on agreeing on custody matters.  

Can You Get Child Custody Agreement Signed by Judge Without Going to Court? 

Yes, you can create your own child custody agreement and visitation schedule and present it to the court to have the Judge sign and file it into the record. You normally don’t have to have a hearing if both parties agree. This solidifies the agreement and makes it an enforceable document that the court oversees. You will have to put your agreement in writing. File the proper petitions and have the judge sign your agreement and file it into the record.  

Your child custody agreement must be in the best interest of the child in order for the judge to sign off on your agreement.  

Do You Need an Attorney to Make a Child Custody Agreement Outside of Court? 

It is highly recommended that you both consult with an experienced Louisiana child custody attorney when drafting your agreement and visitation schedule. You can hire attorneys to assist in the negotiations without having to go to court to fight your case. Your attorney will draft your agreement, make sure it is in proper form, file the required petitions and ensure the judge signs your agreement as presented. Also, an attorney can help if there are any issues along the way. While you can handle your own child custody agreement, it could end up being an extremely difficult situation even if both parties agree. You don’t want to accidentally leave something important out of the child custody agreement and have to go to court to do an amendment.  

Louisiana Civil Code Article 132 tells us that, “If the parents agree who is to have custody, the court shall award custody in accordance with their agreement unless the best interest of the child requires a different award. In the absence of agreement, or if the agreement is not in the best interest of the child, the court shall award custody to the parents jointly; however, if custody in one parent is shown by clear and convincing evidence to serve the best interest of the child, the court shall award custody to that parent.” 

Child custody can be agreed to by both parents without having to go to court, but it is not without difficulties and you should speak with an attorney to learn more.  

If you’re searching for an attorney, but not sure how to choose one – here is an article that gives a few tips on choosing the best attorney in Louisiana.

Disclaimer: This blog post is not intended to be used as legal advice. You must speak with an attorney as this website does not give legal advice on any matter.